“Be yourself… but be your best self.” – Consolee Nishimwe
As we close the chapter on 2024, now is a perfect time to reflect on how far we’ve come and the lessons we’d like to carry into the new year.
While I don’t particularly make New Year’s resolutions, I do believe it’s important to create new goals that will help me grow in different areas of my life.
The end of the year often signifies leaving behind the old and making room for the new. This could mean releasing negative patterns to welcome new thoughts, new habits, and new ideas into our lives.
One of my favorite quotes read, “If you want to fly, you have to give up the things that weigh you down.” So, here’s to spreading our wings and reaching our full potential in 2025.
Here’s a list of 10 habits you should let go of to become your best self!
Your ultimate goal in life is to become your best self. Your immediate goal is to get on the path that will lead you there.
David Viscott
1. Let Go of Control
Letting go of control is often easier said than done. But when we finally do let go, we invite more peace, joy, and freedom into our lives. Letting go of the need to control every outcome can reduce stress and increase our faith. It allows us to surrender our worries and fully trust God—believing that all things are truly working together for our good.
2. Let Go of Holding Grudges
Another thing that often hinders us from moving forward in life is holding on to the past. Becoming your best self often involves letting go of what’s behind you so you can embrace what lies ahead.
Practicing forgiveness—and releasing grudges against those who’ve offended us—can lead to more peaceful and fulfilling lives. In fact, studies show that letting go of grudges can promote physical health, along with spiritual and emotional healing.
3. Let Go of Wanting Everyone to Accept You
It’s natural to want to be accepted by others. But understanding that not everyone will like or accept us is true growth.
If you’re constantly worrying about what other people think of you, then you’ll never reach your full potential. Instead of focusing on gaining the approval of others—focus on building a happy, successful, and authentic life.

4. Let Go of Overspending
Irresponsible spending is a form of self-sabotage that is often overlooked. The truth is, having a lack of peace and progress in life is sometimes the result of bad money habits.
Just like your mental and physical health, your financial health is important for your overall well-being. Prioritize your future self by building good spending habits that will set you up for success.
5. Let Go of Comparing Yourself to Others
We’re human… And it’s natural to compare ourselves to other people from time to time. But if you’re constantly comparing yourself to others, then it’s time to let it go.
Comparing yourself to other people can negatively affect you in several ways. Not only is it unhealthy, but it can also distract you from bettering your own life. Instead of focusing on the lives of others—focus on your strengths, your growth, and your goals.
6. Let Go of Negativity
Negativity can occur in many forms, and it can look different for each of us. But some of the most common types of negativities involve complaining, pessimistic thinking, jealousy, gossiping, and blaming others for our setbacks.
If you want to lead a more positive life, then you must reduce the amount of negative energy around you. Try practicing mindfulness exercises, prayer, and positive affirmations to transform your thinking and behaviors.

7. Let Go of Procrastinating on Your Goals
The quote, “dreams don’t work unless you do,” by John C. Maxwell really sums up a lot. Taking action in your life is the key to achieving your goals.
Many people procrastinate due to factors such as lack of routine, fear of failure, trouble focusing, or feeling like their goals are beyond reach.
If you often find yourself procrastinating, there are several things you can do to improve your motivation. Start by setting small, clear goals that excite you. Then try practicing daily meditation to enhance your mental clarity.
8. Let Go of Constant Busyness
Yes, procrastination can hinder you from becoming your best self. But so can constant busyness.
Staying busy can negatively affect your mental and physical health, leading to depression and burnout. It can also prevent you from embracing the present, diminishing your joy and happiness over time.
The truth is, self-growth involves a great deal of self-reflection and connecting inward, which can be difficult to accomplish if you’re constantly on the go. Remember, life is all about embracing balance. Goals are important—but so is stillness.
9. Let Go of Fearing Change
Wanting things to stay the same is a natural part of life. But as we all know, change is inevitable. The longer we resist change, the longer we hold ourselves back from embracing new opportunities.
Overcoming the fear of change is a challenge for many people, including myself. But we must learn to seek God’s guidance in the unknown, and trust that He is leading us through every chapter.

10. Let Go of Perfectionism
Chasing unrealistic standards can be a real threat to your happiness and well-being. Instead of seeking perfectionism, try embracing flexibility when it comes to your goals.
Striving for progress—not perfection—can add more peace and contentment to your life. In turn, your increased satisfaction can lead to a greater sense of purpose and self-acceptance.
The end of the year is the perfect time to celebrate both ‘the person you are’ and ‘the person you want to become.’
Is there anything you’re striving to let go of to become your best self in 2025? Let me know in the comments!
30 responses to “10 Habits to Let Go of To Become Your Best Self”
Thanks for this. I have a few of these that I need to work on.
Wishing you all the best on your journey. And it’s my pleasure, thanks for reading!
I don’t do new year’s resolutions but I believe having new goals with clear intentions are very important. And letting go is a big goal, you break it down very well. Great post!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. So glad you enjoyed this post, Domii. ❤️
Oh, this is such a good reminder of things to let go of in the new year. I have a few items to work on. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for reading!
This is awesome! I love letting go! It’s healthy!
Letting go is indeed healthy, glad you enjoyed this piece!
Inspiring tips for a fresh start in 2025!
I’m so happy to hear that this post inspired you, Umer!
Great list to start 2025 with enthusiasm and hope. I need this!
Awesome, best of luck in 2025!
Great tips! Letting go of these habits is a powerful step toward becoming your best self.
These are definitely great things to let go of, I know I have a few things from this list to work on letting go of so this was a great reminder and push to focus on that for the new year. Thanks for this!
My pleasure, Molly! It’s great that you’re aware of what you should be working on to become a better version of yourself. Self-awareness is key!
I have tried so hard for years to not hold grudges so I found a solution that worked for me- I wont forget, but I won’t also waste my energy by thinking about it. I will move on and not look backwards. The only person that I will forgive is myself for having experienced such a situation.
Great strategy, Leir. Constantly reliving our past is draining and doesn’t serve us in the long run. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this topic. ❤️
These are helpful ways to start the upcoming year. Thanks for sharing.
I love this list, especially letting go of the negativity. This is something I definitely will be letting go of and toxic people in 2025. Thank you for sharing this! Great information!
Good for you, Shakia! Wishing you all the best on your continued growth journey.
This is a great post – no. 7 certainly one for me to work on. Thanks for sharing.
Wow! I think I have things to work on now, like letting go of control and perfectionism.
Adding and deducting behavior patterns is the way to upgrade yourself every month not just new year.
Like you, new year resolutions are not my thing as well.
Nice list you have written here! Something that offers pointers to work on every month! Thanks 🙂
Letting go of busyness is the main thing I need to work on as I step into the New year. I love that your contenis faith-based. Thank you for the inspiration!
I really enjoyed reading this! Your reflection on closing the chapter of 2024 and looking ahead to 2025 is inspiring. I love how you emphasize growth, releasing negativity, and making space for new ideas—such a healthy perspective to carry forward.
I really enjoyed reading this post and taking notes on what I can do to better myself in 2025. Here’s to letting go of the fear of change and negativity. Thank you for inspiring me.
Your blog is a great way to look at moving on from habits that get in the way! Very motivating! I’m really working to not procrastinate on my goals and good to see that reminder.
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