Have you ever wanted to walk out of your life and begin another?
Just start again in another body at another time? Become a whole new person?
Well you can if you really want to. But first you have to change your self. And that my friend is not always easy.
You have a life and it would be just too hard to change things now wouldn’t it? And you have a partner and maybe a couple of kids to consider?
Your life may not be the happiest, but you are comfortable. You have a job that pays the bills; life is predictable, safe and secure, like an old pair of slippers. But you can’t get up to much exciting stuff wearing slippers can you?
If you are not happy with your life, change it now, don’t wait. Move out of your comfort zone into the unknown.
What is stopping you? What do you fear?
Pay attention to your fears, feel them, acknowledge them but do not allow them to rule your behaviour and choices. We can choose to live in the shadow of fear and greed or we can choose to live in the light of faith, hope and love.
Choosing to change your life can be challenging and brings with it a certain degree of risk and uncertainty. But if you want to start living your life the way you want to live it you must risk being alive. You must chase your dreams and find your passion for living once again.
Just for a moment, pretend that you are master of the universe; you have the possibility to create a new life for yourself, a life that you have never lived before. Be outrageous in your thinking and visualize what you most want to change.
Once you have a clear vision of what you want, focus on the result and notice how you are feeling. Are you pumped up? Are you excited? Are you motivated? Of course you are. Life is about living. Take your dreams and aspirations on a giant wave of action with these steps.
17 Steps to help you Change your Life
- Follow your passion.
- Feel your fear and don’t let it sabotage your choices.
- Accept that you are going to feel stressed at this time.
- Eat well and exercise daily. Try a vitamin B supplement to help stress levels.
- Let go of security.
- Be willing to make mistakes.
- Stop being sensible.
- Ask for help.
- Take a baby step towards change every day.
- Step out in fear. Acknowledge the risks and costs.
- Have faith in yourself.
- Dare to feel excited.
- Focus on the benefits of change.
- Reward yourself as you move nearer your goals.
- Accept the past and move forward.
- Embrace all the uncertainty of change.
- Be open to the gift of life.
As you step out in fear and embrace change, your old life will be a distant memory and your new life will blossom into what you want it to be.