In comparison to my 20s, without a doubt, my 30s have been my best years by far.
Although I used to worry about getting older, I have to say that this has been an amazing decade, and I’m actually looking forward to experiencing what the next decade might have in store.
I’m in my late 30s now, and I consider this age the sweet spot. I’m still young enough to pursue the things I want in life, but also old and wise enough to know exactly what I don’t want.
Since entering my 30s, I’ve gained more of a sense of self. Unlike during my 20s, I have a lot more life experience, and I’m well aware of who I am.
In this article, I’ll be sharing a few things I love about being in my 30s!
I Care Less About What Others Think
To a certain degree, we’ll always care about what other people think; it’s human nature. What I love is that I care a lot more about what I think than anyone else. But it took me a while to get here…
The truth is, when we’re young, we often look to others around us for validation. Thankfully, being in my 30s has been the start of looking within.
Over the years, I’ve grown to care less and less about what others think. Unlike the younger version of me—I’m stronger, more self-confident, and I don’t need others to like my choices.
Being in my 30s has brought about a freeing experience. I’m comfortable in my own skin, and I live up to my own expectations.
I’m Building Healthy Habits in My 30s
With age comes wisdom and ease. I’m mastering the art of slowing down and taking better care of my health—physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. The older I get, the more mindfully I live.
Connecting with nature, reserving time to be alone, practicing gratitude, writing, and enjoying simple pleasures are just a few ways that I prioritize myself and my needs.
With age also comes a sense of stability. Because I’m more stable than I was in the past (physically and financially), I can now give my attention to other parts of my life. I’m dedicating more time to pursuing my passions, and building better lifestyle habits to support my well-being.
The truth is, when we’re young, we often look to others around us for validation. Thankfully, being in my 30s has been the start of looking within.
I’m Not Afraid to Try New Things
There’s a certain boldness that comes with age; the kind that gives you the courage to break out of your comfort zone and embrace new experiences. And I have to say, I’m here for it!
When we’re young, we tend to let the fear of failure and embarrassment impact our decisions to try new things. As we get older, we come to understand that a meaningful life is one that involves taking chances.
The truth is, we hold the power to our own happiness—no one else. And trying new experiences (pass or fail) can definitely increase our happiness, as well as teach us new things about ourselves.
But the best part is, all new experiences don’t have to be extreme. Small changes to your daily routine—such as going for a walk, changing your usual coffee shop, or taking a different route to work—can all do wonders for your physical and mental well-being.
I Practice Forgiveness in My 30s
Since being in my 30s, I’ve gained an increased capacity to forgive. The older I get, the more I realize that mistakes are a part of life—and instead of holding grudges—I’m learning to hold compassion.
But the truth is, forgiveness isn’t always simple, and sometimes the person who needs our forgiveness the most is ourselves.
As I continue working on my current self, I’m learning to befriend my past self.
The more I practice forgiveness (towards myself and others), the more I allow peace to flow through my life. Practicing forgiveness is an act of self-love.
I won’t say that this has been an easy decade, as each phase of life presents its own set of challenges. But the more we live, the more we learn.
Being in my 30s has been a beautiful journey of “holding space” for myself. I’m happily and increasingly learning how to meet myself in ways that are accepting, loving, and supportive!
51 responses to “Are 30s the Best Years? Here’s What I Love”
Good article! I always enjoy reading your work!
Thank you! Good to hear!
Great article! keep the good work up. all the support and love.
Thanks so much!
Well said! I really enjoy reading your blog in my quiet time.
Great post! It made me think about my 20s and 30s.
That’s good to know, Niccori!
This is very well-said! The 30s has been the best for me by far. Thank you for sharing!
Awesome! Definitely my best years so far!
Love this! Definitely appreciate my 30s…now that I’m in my 40s ?
My 40s are just around the corner. I hope the next chapter is just as good as this one. But from what I’ve been told, the 40s are even better. Hope it’s true!
Awesome read!!! Love it!!!
Thanks, love!
Beautifully stated. I’m loving your posts!
Thanks! That means so much to hear!
Very inspirational blog on your growth from your 20s and good thoughts for all age groups!
Thank you!
Great points! This is such a good topic. Thanks for sharing!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Yes yes yes! Love being in our thirties! 🙂
The wonder years!
I will turn 30 in a year and a half and I already started realizing all those things. Truly, I would not want to be 18 again 🙂
I know right! I wouldn’t go back if I could.
Yes! I love being in my 30s. The things that I have been willing to discover about myself. I can’t wait to see what the last year of my 30s brings!
Same!! I’ve discovered so much about myself as well. I have one year left in this decade, and I’m excited about the journey. Cheers to us!
Yes to caring less about what other people think ?? great article!
Such a good read! I love all of your points and growth from the twenties 🙂
Glad to hear it! Thanks for taking the time to read it!
It’s the best feeling!
What a great post and I wish I had read this before I turned 30 since I had so much anxiety that I wasn’t where I thought I should be!
Sounds like my 20s! The anxiety was real… Hope you’re in a better place now!
I have loved being in my 30’s. 40’s are just around the corner and I know that will be just as good. Thanks for the reminder to live in the moment no matter the age.
My 40s are just around the corner as well. Hopefully more good things are in store for us!
So true about starting to look within and have less of an external influence on ourselves once we hit 30!
Yes, it makes all the difference.
Wait for the 40s, I think it only gets better! Really enjoyed reading your post, thanks so much for sharing 😉
Looking forward to it!
This is so timely! I just crossed into my mid-thirties and the not caring about what others think really resonated. I designated last year as my “year of yes” and that really helped speed things along. Thirties are great – keep celebrating!
Same for me! Last year was my “year of yes” and I’m not looking back. So glad this post resonated with you!
I can definitely relate to this post. I have learned so much in my 30’s that i wish I knew at 20
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I definitely feel growth in my 30’s. Not caring what others think and being intentional about my self-care. Thanks for the post.
Good for you, Sharonda! It really does get better with time.
Love this. I’m just starting my 40’s and hoping to make it as good (if not better) than my 30’s!
Awesome post! In my thirties, I began focusing more on my health and felt more at ease in my decisions and just life in general.
Being in my 30s has been great and and crazy to think i was kind of scare of turning 30. Thanks for the post!
Yes yes yes to caring less about what others thinks! This totally sums of 30s!
I have found that my thirties was a great time for me too. I’m in the middle of my 40s now, and life has certainly taken many twists and turns. I am striving to pursue my dreams now too.
Good for you, Crystal!
30s are indeed one of our best decades 😀
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